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Bulūgh al-Maram: Exhortation to Good Character

In the Name of Allāh, the Ever Merciful, the Bestower of Mercy

The following ḥadīth are selected from Ibn Ḥajr al-Asqʿalánī's Bulooghul-Maram (Attainment of the Objective according to Evidence of the Ordinances). [Page 480+ eng. trans.] They touch on the importance of good Islamic character; being truthful, avoiding lying, the evil of a suspicious mind, heedlessness, not protecting each other's honour etc.

A good reminder to the sincere heart, that even if you have been blessed with guidance to the Sunnah and hold yourself to be from Ahlul-Ḥaqq, the Shayṭān will not leave you alone, perhaps he may destroy your deeds by wrecking your character and making you heedless and blinded by the fact that you 'ascribe yourself to the correct manhaj'. We ask Allāh to make us people of upright character, firstly with Allāh, His Messenger, His Companions, the Scholars of Islām, Our families, kinsfolk and our brothers and sisters in Islām.

1314. Narrated by Ibn Masʿūd (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Adhere (you people) to truthfulness. Indeed, truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise, and if a man continues to speak the truth and makes truth his object, he will be recorded as truthful before Allāh. Avoid (you people) falsehood, indeed falsehood leads to wickedness and wickedness leads to the hellfire, and if a man continues to speak falsehood and makes falsehood his object, he will be recorded as a liar before Allāh [agreed upon].

1315. Narrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Avoid (you people) suspicion, for indeed suspicion is the worst form of false speech. [agreed upon]

1316. Narrated Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Avoid sitting by the roadside, they (the Companions) asked ‘O Allāh’s Messenger, we cannot do without those meeting places in which we converse,’ so he said, “Well if you insist (on that), give the road its dues.” They asked, ‘what are the roads due?’ He replied, “Lowering the eyes, abstaining from anything offensive, returning salutations, enjoining good, forbidding the evil.” [agreed upon]

1317. Narrated Mu’aawiyyah (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Whoever Allāh wishes good for, he gives him understanding of the Religion” [agreed upon].

1318. Narrated Abū al-Dardā (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “There isn’t anything, which will be put on the scales (on the day of resurrection), heavier than good character.” [Abū Dāwūd and al-Tirmidhī reported it, and the later graded it ṣaḥīḥ]

1319. Narrated Ibn ʿUmar (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Modesty is part of Faith” [agreed upon].

1320. Narrated Abū Masʿūd (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “One of the things people have learned from the earlier prophecies is, ‘If you do not feel any shame, do whatever you like.’ [al-Bukhārī reported it]

1322. Narrated Iyāḍ Ibn Himar (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: "Allāh, The Most High, has revealed to me that you should be humble, so that no one transgresses against another, and no one boasts to another.” [Muslim reported it]

Note: we see hear that both transgression and pride are blameworthy characteristics, it is reported in a ḥadīth that the Prophet (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) stated that transgression is one of the worst of the criminal acts that are punishable in this world as well as in the hereafter. Indeed, lack of humbleness fosters and breeds both transgression and pride.

1323. Narrated by Abū al-Dardā (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu), the Prophet (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “Whoever defends his brother’s honour in his absence, Allāh will protect his face from the hellfire on the day of resurrection.” [al-Tirmidhī reported it, and graded it ḥasan. Aḥmad has something similar from the ḥadīth of Asmāʾa’, daughter of Yazeed.]

Note: If someone backbites a third person before somebody, the listener must stop him on the spot; and if possible one should mention his virtuous deeds and qualities instead.

1326. Narrated Tamīm ad-Daree (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu) Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said three times: “The religion is naseehah (sincerity).” We asked, ‘who is it (directed) to, O Messenger of Allāh?’ He replied, “To Allāh, His Book, His Messenger, the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk” [Muslim reported it].

1327. Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu); Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “The Fear of Allāh and the Good Character are the major things that lead to Paradise.” [At-Tirmidhī reported it, and al-Ḥākim graded it ṣaḥīḥ]

Note: Good Character here includes treating people well, refraining from causes them any harm and maintaining a cheerful appearance whilst interacting with them. The Arabic word Taqwá stands for one’s compliance with the divine commands and avoiding the prohibitions.

1330. Narrated Ibn ʿUmar (raḍī Allāhu ‘anhu); Allāh’s Messenger (sallāllāhu ʿalayhī wa-sallam) said: “The believer who mixes with the people and patiently endures their harms, is better than the one who does not mix with them and does not endure their harm.” [Ibn Majah reported it with  ḥasan chain of narrations, al-Tirmidhī also reported this ḥadīth but did not mention the name of the Companion.]

From the Good Manners of Correcting Mistakes

  Shaykh ʿAbdullāh al-Bukhārī

Concerning the position, ‘I don't speak about anyone and I don't want anyone speaking about me.’ This position is made with good intentions and in shāʾ Allāh is intended to avoid fitnah. However, is this statement correct or should we be open to giving and receiving advice, commanding the good, forbidding the evil, saying that which is for us and that which is against us?

Gentleness and Ease

  Abū ʿUways ʿAbdullāh Aḥmad ʿAlī

The Messenger, ʿalayhī al-ṣalātu wa-al-salām, said, “Indeed gentleness does not enter into anything except that it beautifies it, isn't removed from anything except that it disfigures it.”

Reconciling the Hearts

   

How often is it that we sever the bonds of brotherhood – that Allāh has given us out of His mercy – out of selfish and un-Islamic reasons?  Know what is due upon you – O servant of Allāh – in terms of reconciling with your brother!

Reflections

   

An extremely inspiring account of the humility and constant remembrance of the Salaf.

Speak Good or Remain Silent!

  Shaykh ʿAbdullāh al-Bukhārī

From the Five Pillars dawrah with the Shaykh, in Medinah (2012). Here, he explains the Ḥadīth of the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam), “Whosoever believes in Allāh and the last day then let him speak good or remain silent.” Shaykh ʿAbdullāh al-Bukhārī is a former student of Shaykh Muḥammad Amān al-Jāmī and is well known to the Salafi scholars. Translated by Abū Ḥakim Bilāl Davis.

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