However, this does not prevent you from speaking to your husband with such words, and behaving with him in such a manner, that will soften his heart and lead to him being pleased with you and fulfilling your rights of companionship.
Al-ʿAllāmah ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz ibn ʿAbdullāh ibn Bāz
[Q.3]: Even though my husband – may Allāh forgive him – is a person of good character and fears Allāh, yet he does not treat me with kindness. He is always moody, frowning and troubled at heart – and he often says that I am the cause of this. However, Allāh knows – and all praise is for Allāh...